One thing, I still haven't gotten used to (and chances are, I never will) is to find that people leave you in the balance about the reasons for their rejection. I mean, I don't know about you, but I'd like to know where I've messed up with someone, if I do, you know? Isn't it bad enough that you are forced to feel their rejection - be it personal or in the professional realm? No, instead people like to give you that extra kick in the groin by not letting you know about their reasons for them to dislike you. IT'S DRIVING ME FUCKING CRAZY! I don't mean to say that I tend to rub it in with any given person, if I don't like them or don't want them around me. But if confronted, I don't have a problem to say. Likewise, I usually enquire, if somebody has a problem with me. However - I have found so far that people often don't return this token of respect and just leave you wondering. I HATE THAT from the bottom of my heart! URRGGGGG!
But I get the feeling, that's just the way it is - just like with so many other experiences that totally suck.