A marriage conversation

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Old news. Someone already showed me that message a long time ago! But it was the other way round! LOL. Now stop acting like such a victim!! It's water under the bridge.

well, opinions differ :-))

They shouldn't. Or else how can men and women ever get together??!

haha! but we're not bitter.

no, it doesn't really help after the first surprise ;-)

pfff... do you have a wife??

thank the holy trinity not any more!!!
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so this text is confirmed... hmmm...

oh yes, I love the shining truth!

Does anybody have a confetti I can cry into?! ;-PPP

why? you can just cry in your chair???

I was being ironic ;-DDD
Don't spread all these negative "waves" around. Please!

why do you find them negative??? I only have good intentions!

That may be so, but it gives the impression that all marriages (and women) are like your description above and that simply isn't the case. If you have an issue with your ex, you should discuss it with her. If you want to be mad at her, be mad at her and target the culprit, but not all the other women or marriage. It and they didn't do it to you, so don't accuse them, directly or indirectly!!

lol! funny!

yes, this is the funny aspect of a tragic couple of moments :-DDDD

haha haha

I'm happy to see that a simple truth can be amusing :-)

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it seems you recognise some of the above ;-)

well, ... :-))

come on dear, confess everything!

I got married long time ago ... and the only thing I will tell you is, that my husband never used to hit me. :-)))

Na, was für ein glück ;-) Sowas ist mir noch nie passiert, das hätte nämlich ein äusserst unangenehmes nachspiel für den gentleman!!

Leider liebt es unser Peri, seinen Ipernity fans was von seiner verkorksten ehemals ehe vorzuheulen, er scheint aber ganz zu vergessen, dass zu einer miesen ehe meistens zwei gehören. Na ja, was kann man sagen - typisch mann, die frauen sind mal wieder an allem schuld. Wenn's nicht so lustig wäre, würde ich schluchzend zusammenbrechen, so reichts aber nur zu einem ROTFL!!

... und das übersetzt er sich jetzt mit babelfish ... und fragt sich, um was es eigentlich geht! :-))

whatever it is about it seems to be written thoughtlessly!

Hahaha, ja, der mann hat sich wahrscheinlich sein ganzes leben von griechisch auf holländisch mit babelfisch übersetzen lassen. Und das übersetzt jetzt der babelfisch für uns auf englisch - kein wunder, dass da nichts als mist rauskommt. Ich frag mich allmählich auch, worum es hier geht - sind manche online charaktäre eigentlich genau so in wirklichkeit?? Oder lassen sie nur online die sau raus, weil sie sich da sicher fühlen, diese helden? LOL. Auf jeden fall geht mir dieses gequatsche jetzt so langsam auf den keks - und was ich online sage, würde ich demjenigen auch höchstpersönlich mitteilen, keine sorge!! :-DDD

you sound a bit irritated! can I do something for you?? (though I know you can't accept anything at this moment)

Actually you could, but I'm not sure that you would do it :-)

hey hey, your muscles are working overtime!

he didn't use to? you mean he did it only incidentally?

LMAO! Good one:))

oh yes, I found it a good reflection of reality for many people... there is another version too. The only difference is the replacement of 'HE' with 'SHE' and vice versa. I prefer this one, as it is more close to my reality ;-)
It's somehow like an insurance contract... you discover later how it's exactly meant to be

lol...that is a very good analogy:)

what is wisdom?
study insurance contracts before deciding to ... get married.
Especially the paragraphs on how to get rid of them :-DDD

clever and funny, tho probably not to you.

not at all indeed ;-)

this is so interesting and amusing, it took me few minutes to read all of you conversation, it was fun then it stop, why.. lets move on cheers

well, it stopped because I suppose that coming from reality to fantasy is a huge step :-DDD

yes big difference, so where r u now? in the reality or fantasy? cheers

I would call it realistic fantasy ;-)
(Alas I can't call it the opposite, fantastic reality but anyway ;-)

Blind-Sided- Playing a Greek Tragedy for Rueful Laughs.

We all must pay for the full experience of Life with the hard coin of Trust, itself subject to the capricous exchange-rate of Vulnerability. One may, of course, pay only for a cheaper seat and keep oneself at a greater distance from the stage, but you are sure thereby to miss the rich subtleties of the full show.

All who have had parts in the kind of raw drama played out in these albums know that the suffering, grief, and pain are highly individual experiences of what is a not-uncommon human scenario, but all must be as shocked as I to see how, given enough talent, presence of mind, and drive, it can so quickly be turned into rueful humor.

This is an agressive treatment in the Intensive Care Unit of Art, and the illness of bitter conviction that one must be profoundly stupid and an utter fool to have walked unaware into so disasterous a train-wreck begins to heal all the sooner. One is not stupid; one is not a fool - one was guilty only of extending great Trust and good faith, and those commodities require courage and character.

These are terrific photographs in a narrative of universal occurence, original and poignantly told. Persons advising the author to 'get over it' and 'move on' are speaking from ignorance of the process. It takes time. This is the good-hard-look stage; later comes the look-back-but-don't-stare time, and the anguish is by then dying or dead. The human body and mind tend strongly toward health. The slight self-mockery used so well here is its sign

Very nice, good fun...

ich verstehe überhaupr nichts mehr..

well... i'm laughing just a little, telling myself to stop because it's sad, the truth (for some) perhaps, yet sad nonetheless. perhaps i'm a hopeless, i prefer hopeful, romantic. it's that trust thing... you betray it once then you can forget about ever getting it back 100% so what does it take for someone to trust you completely?! an openness that exceeds all limits. (it's just fucking hard work overall).

romanticism makes blind, but there's othing wrong with that. Like trust, you can only give it, not receive, expect, buy etc etc
hard work kills...

true to the second statement about trust. how does romanticism make blind? hard work kills... it depends on the work :-) maybe i should have said that love needs nurturing or it'll die (but you know that).

a true statement is golden!
all hard work kills, sometimes the project, sometimes the people unless it's for fun...
Hmmm, it needs nurturing they say, but this still can be done in automatic piloting mode!?

i don't think it can be done on automatic mode. we learn, evolve and change throughout life. it's all in the little things, the small nuances. the surprises and unforeseen moments.

you sound so idealistic!

and then you want to tell me that once i get older i'll know exactly what you're talking about, because i'll learn the hard truth?! :-D

if I were old enough I wouldn't want to do that to you, they say feelings dry up with age, but I see the opposite happening.
well, I prefer a beautiful truth, but it would be a pity to wait untill you get old to live it ;-)

maybe it's all those restrictions we put on ourselves and our partners that make us run from each other eventually. the mistrust. the automatic mode we settle into, because life is just so darn overwhelming with a stressful job, not to mention the kids, and all the things we have to live up to in order to be successful, because god knows loving and living isn't successful enough nowadays... bla bla bla!

I think not restrictions but expectations are worse for healthy relationships

true that.

thank you, at last I can rest in satisfaction of talking the truth