Where's the Respect on ipy?

just 2 sad, since a while i checked some 'girl groups' again
after some groups i found out almost all of them also admit 'hunting shyte'
so now they look like friggin spyshot groups!
hhmmpffft
what happend here on ipy,
where's the respect?!
:((
i really hope the concerning admins change the rules & ban spyshots
let those reallife lurkers post in their own groups..