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The people one meets

Sunday July 15, 2007 at 11:07AM

The way the network of people here in Kuwait works is strange.

You meet people for the first time and they asap hook you up with someone they decide you need to meet.

This way I ended up meeting Jane last Sunday (after I met another woman the first time, which made that phone call....).

We went to Starbucks around my corner here and had some good hours chat time. She is Canadian and has lived in Germany for many years. She's also a painter.

We made a loose appointment for this morning again and she tried to bring a German friend of hers as well. We ended up being four women this morning. A Spanish, a Canadian and two German "Ladies" . The Lady from Spain is what Jane calls a real artist. Paints, makes Jewlery and makes Sculptures. Fascinating. All of us have travelled the world a bit or a bit more and we had a lot to Chat about.

Sharing stories similar and yet different from all kinds of places. That you get handerchiefs as a present in Japan, because you need them in summer and you have to wear stockings there, no matter what the temperatures are. That most Indians love to have a lot of people close to them and call one a neighbor when he comes out of the same 5 million people small "village".

We will repeat this. One of the rare times that I say "It's fun to meet some women".

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Ronet says:
Interesting.

In France you don't bring wine if you are invited for dinner, but a pot plant for the hostess.

In Holland, well in 7 years I've never been invited to a Dutch person's house for dinner. I'm told that Dutch people make friends at school and university, and don't have time for new friends. I have been turned down as a friend once or twice because that person's diary is full.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
Didn't know about the Frenchies. Good advice :D

Sad about the Dutch - didn't know thaThat's what usually happened to me with Americans. First the "We gotta keep in touch" thingy and then you never get in touch again part.
So, I'm always sort of a sceptic anyway ;)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
picsbymac replies:
The 'we have to keep in touch, I'll call you' comment drives me nuts. It's as meaningful as 'how is the weather?' - wait, that might be a more sincere statement/question.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
© Marco replies:
LOL, yes ;)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
They are!
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
Stewart Leiwakabessy replies:
NL peeps do say that often, and after a while it really comes to a dinner date or so. The US peeps however are a bit more tough -- but that's my 2 cents.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
Stewart Leiwakabessy replies:
D, as soon as the house is done, you are more than welcome to come along, have dinner and bring your camera(s) :-) Same goes for you Nicole, but it's a bit tricky for you I guess.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
One day, one day we will be over there again :D
We actually were thinking to do a trip to Amsterdam instead of Bahrain ;)
But 5 hour flight got beat by 30 minutes and beach ;)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
shangzheng says:
Nice story. I'm fascinating on those paints,hand made Jewlery and sculptures.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
Yepp - can't wait to see them either. We are invited to the Spanish Ladies house when she comes back end of August / September :)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
picsbymac says:
Hmm...I've made friends with Dutch here in Canada. But, Toronto is a city of villages with many cultures and customs. It's good for encounters like you describe.

My own little neighbourhood was initially built and settled by Welsh + Scottish immigrants. Now it is mostly Ukranian - in another month the 'biggest' Ukranian festival in North America will be held here - the main street will be closed so that stages, for singers and dancing troupes, can be put up. There will be rides and games, lots of food for everyone, and then the beer tents. Imagine a main city street shut for the weekend and filled with beer tents. Last year I saw a man in a Scottish kilt visiting the festival : )
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
A Scott visiting the Ukrainians, his ancestors probably turn around in their graves ;)

Sound like a good multicultural place!

Over here it's probably the Mix that makes it more easy going than Korea.

I mean, there are only only 3 Million people living in Kuwait - 2 million of them are expats.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
Pandarinepro says:
In Taiwan you don't want to give handkerchiefs as a gift, because it means you are wishing tears to the recipient. And don't give them perfume, either, because that means you think they smell bad ;-)

(Tips from my Taiwanese sister-in-law)

Nice to make interesting friend this way!
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
Also good points to know :D!
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
Stewart Leiwakabessy says:
I try to bring flowers. Always a good gift.
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
*Reinhard*pro says:
so weit Alles klar, nur was heißt ...but a pot plant for the hostess, nur um hier nichts falsch zu verstehen!!! ;-)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
Keine Ahnung :)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink / translate )
*Reinhard*pro replies:
habe ich schon befürchtet ;)
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Sherry ~ Rebujito says:
Hey Hey Hey missy...I'm American...and ya ain't gettin rid of me so quick...
LOL LOL LOL ;-)))))))
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
NicoleB replies:
Well, there are always exceptions, ya know ;)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )
Stilettopro says:
A rare treat indeed to bond with like-minded souls - and of the "sisterhood" at that! ;-)
Posted 2 years ago. ( permalink )

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