changessssss!

that's why i divorced and moving to scotland :) some things cannot be rushed but when the time comes it all speeds up :))
keep my fingers crossed dear friend :))

oooh, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you as well! What will you be doing in Scotland?

i have my evil plan but i must be brave and now i'm just tired of waiting and afraid of everything :) it will pass when i get to Glasgow, i suppose :D

I believe ones life is all the time unique, but one must allow oneself to get off of old tracks and discover new paths. Only then can one grow as humans, life should be a learning process.... As go for making choices, I tend to trust my instincts rather than a fixed map. Discoveries are so much more interesting when you do not know what's behind the door :)

thrilling, isn't it? when you have these rare moments when you can do sooo much, you just have to make your move.

i also follow my instinct a lot - it make sit somehow difficult to share your life with very rational people...

Now for a complete different perspective:

Any door in front of you is the correct answer, as you are moving forward, not knowing what to find behind the door of your choice.

Otherwise you'd be standing still, no progress at all, and worse case scenario: you'd be moving backwards.

So, go on, make that move, open up a door and welcome whatever is behind the door...

that's a good point.
the hard part is leaving people behind, saying goodbye.
and then there is the thrilling of the new people coming.

Be grateful that you got to know them, and keep trust in the fact that, since you met great people, you will meet great people again!

It's easier said than done, I'm aware of that, but it's a given fact :-D

Yes it is always very hard to say goodbyes: I know. I am half the way across the world from my birth place with a stop halfway through. Many friends left behind but new ones made. However, those left behind have left their marks on our lives they are part of us and therefore are ever-present. The new ones we will make will do the same but we can never know how. It may be scary, intimidating but it certainly could be an adventure. Go forward without regrets because in reality nothing is left behind all is taken invisibly inside.

and we'll always carry our past with us. it's what we are. I'm probably going to move from berlin. it's scary, and I don't really want to. but to move on it is necessary to renounce on other things....

sometimes life should be easier, hu? :)

If life did not have those challenges I think it would get boring very quickly. I wish you all the best in whatever decision you make.

I totally agree with Stewart. If you know it's time to go. Move on. Never say Goodbye, if they are good people, they will always be with you. Hoping you make the right decision for you.

thanks, I hope to make the right decision too.
and if it's the wrong one... well, at least I tried :)

do you know that crisis means chance ??
Don't lost the perspective of your life.
Dib ;-)

de discours à parcours..

Take all doors you are free to go and come its your life but you don't have to say i take the middle door just test the best ,listen to your feelings and your heart!!!Do not listen to so called smart people they cant decide for you !!
See ya