or say something to attempt to lighten a person's (or persons) spirits and no matter how good your intentions were, you fail horribly.
At those times, you either think:
1. Freak it! Never going to try & lighten anyone's mood ever again.
2. Freak it! Never going to try & lighten that person's mood ever again!
3. Freak it! I'll just let things settle down!
4. Freak it! Not worth getting stressed about!
5. Freak it! Going back to bed!

At moment, I am leaning heavily towards #1 !