Jeanie, my new monthly dinner friend that I met through the Mindfulness meetup just emailed me and said if I wanted to be friends with Michele (organizer of the group and sister of James who died last week) that she could not be friends with me. Michele is blaming Jeanie for James death. I replied to Jeanie that I did not connect with Michele, I connected with her and told her to know that this is all about Michele and her pain and perhaps guilt that she was not here herself to look after her brother. There are some issues that Jeanie had brought up with James' case worker and psychologist and they ignored her concerns and she was smart enough to document all her care and concern about James, so if Michele tries to sue her she is armed. Jeanie is really torn up about this and has hired a lawyer as Michele somehow got her care.com account closed. Such ugly business extending an already tragic life and end...