a year or so ago I decided to Google people I used to know. My first serious BF, Dave, left him a voicemail and he never called back, and my last boss in Australia, Dominic, I emailed him and didn't hear back.

I found a pic of Dave, he is chubbier, has a moustache and slicked backed grey hair (used to have beautiful blond hair), and a blurb says his wife's name, a different name than the one I knew.

I had the urge to look up Dominic again tonight and I found his obituary. It says he died suddenly the day after his 53rd birthday, July of last year. How sad... He loved his daughters to pieces, they would be in their 20s. He was such a lovely man.