well I hope so! I have a feeling I am going to get a scathing email back which will be read just for fun and then deleted.

This is what I sent to Shelley:

Unfortunately our relationship is not healthy for me. I will no longer be going on monthly lunches with you.
Have fun in your retirement next year,
P.S. I am more intelligent that you seem to think I am and am the happiest and most stress free I have ever been in my life now.

SO THERE!!! I feel GOOD!!!